Yesterday was the six month anniversary of my mother's death. The only reason I realized that is because my sisters both posted something on facebook.
I don't really get it, marking the 'mini' anniversaries of someone's passing; no day makes me hurt more (it can't) and no day makes me remember more as I think about her every day.
I'm not knocking it, I'm just not understanding it. Perhaps I'm just making excuses because I didn't realize it, but I have never put the importance on the 'when'.
On December 11 of any year, I will take some time to pay homage and her birthday will hold my heart. Every other day will be a reflection of her life as lived through her family because she was loved.
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